When your YOUNG and SINGLE in a city, FRIENDS are your FAMILY

FRIENDS..everyone has a different opinion on what it actually means. It can mean anything. Some people take the meaning of FRIENDS seriously, whereas others don’t. After witnessing certain situations, the meaning of FRIENDS is a big question mark to me now. Try and picture this. U welcome a new friend in your life. U gave him/her the special treatment, invite him/her to every ocassion u organize, make sure he/she is not left out. Introduce him/her to your friends. Then, the both of you are comfortable with each other, u tend to share secrets with each other. Suddenly, one day….he/she lied to you, he/she was ashame to introduce you to his/her friends without knowing what the reason was, he/she was avoiding you, he/she was isolating himself from your group of friends. U’ve helped him/her alot in the past but suddenly, out of the blue, he/she backstabs you, doesn’t really treat u or appreciate u as his/her friend. That’s so B*LLS**T. Damn it. A true friend will not do those things, or if those things happened, a true friend will realise it, and come up with an apology and an explanation.

Another situation, a true friend will know his/her limits when a conversation is involved. You can’t just simply say anything u wanna say. U have to have certain limits. Certain things might hurt you friends in a way. Don’t be SO ARROGANT. For example, when ur engaged in a conversation about money, make sure u analyze people around you that might not be comfortable about this conversation. Or, when your having a conversation with ur friends from other countries, don’t be a big show off about your country. Each country has their own pride and things that they can be proud off. Lastly, don’t criticise people buying cheap things. If u dun like it, than BACK OFF. Don’t go and say things like.."ewww…cheap stuff". It hurts…alot. I know that u have LOADS of MONEY that u can spent on branded stuff, but be more considerate to others who can’t afford it. Statements like that can hurt your friends really bad and leave a deep wound in their hearts. So people…do know your limits alright. I may not be a good friend either. I may have hurt certain people directly or indirectly, but deep down inside me, i appreciate my friends so damn much. Friends are one of the precious gifts in the world.    

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